I've been blogging for almost a year and a half and for the most part it's been a really positive experience. I've become acquainted with a lot of great people and for me, it's been a good outlet and way to socialize when I'm feeling overwhelmed with being a stay-at-home mom.
But like anything else blogging can be abused-- if that's really the appropriate term. Over the last couple of days I've noticed something on two blogs that I regularly go to; appeals for money. I don't have a problem with people making money off of their blogs. I've toyed with the idea of doing PayPerPost so I could raise money for giveaways on my other blogs. There are several blogs that I respect who advertise and earn all kinds of money. I have no issue with that.
What I don't like is blatant appeals for money using a sob story of some kind. The fact is, I really don't know these people and have no idea if I'm being conned or not-- and let's face it, they're more than likely being dishonest.
One blog in particular caught my attention. The blogger (who shall remain nameless unless I find out for sure there is any wrongdoing going on) is one of those who has had ads and donation buttons on her blog for some time-- no big deal. But about a week or so ago she decides to put up a post about some pyramid-type business she's doing and wondering if anyone is interested in joining. Okaaaaay. Her credibility is dented a bit but not irreparable.
But then yesterday she puts up a post about her ailing grandparents and how they need money for meds and so on.
Am I wrong to be suspicious?
The post is all touchy-feely, sweet and certain to pull at the emotions. But is it real? I have no way of knowing. I do know, due to her gushing gratitude, that over $4000 has been raised by donations on her blog.
Granted, the people who donate are doing so of their own free will and they have the ability to question the credibility of the story as much as I do. But still, I have a feeling they're being conned.
Another blog has an appeal for money to help a young girl leave an abusive situation and go back home to her mom. There's pictures of the trailer she lives in and everything!
Yeah, I'm not buying it.
Sorry folks. No donations from me. I'll take my money directly to my local receiving home if you don't mind. It's nothing personal. I just don't know you people. Really.
6 comments:
Bloody hell! I'm missing a trick there...
I feel cheeky even asking for Bloggies nominations. Maybe I should get me a picture of a trailer. It's a funny thing really, this blogging, because you're right, even though we have access to the most initmate thoughts of our blog pals, we don't really know them. Mind you, saying that, I have sent people gifts and been sent gifts myself and that has been lovely.
Puss
i felt bad before raising money for the breast cancer walk but two bloggers were walking in my name and i felt i had to do it. i mean i didn't mind donating myself but i DID feel funny asking bloggers to do it. good points honey...
smiles, bee
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Bee
I'm not talking about legitimate causes. I've given donations to different causes online in someone's name-- but directly to the organization.
I'm just leery when someone asks for money directly with only a sad story as proof the money is needed.
I've not run into this yet, thank goodness.
How fun to read Puss' comment--as she and I have happily exchanged gifts, in a way that exemplifies the best of the blog world.
This other? Eww. I haven't really experienced it myself, but now I'm going to have my eye out (the other eye will not be looking).
Puss and Jocelyn
I have given and received gifts too, but I have never asked for money.
How tacky.
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